• Skip to primary navigation
  • Skip to main content
  • Skip to primary sidebar

Storied Mind

Recover Life from Depression

  • Home
  • About
    • Commenting Guidelines
  • START HERE
    • Archives
  • Self-Help
    • Recovery Stories
You are here: Home / Archives for Relationship

Relationship

Forgiveness and Escape from Depression

by John Folk-Williams 8 Comments

Forgiveness

As many know it, forgiveness is a feeling that can’t be forced, one that often comes after a long inner struggle. I’ve lived with the need for many forms of forgiveness, and each has been important in my recovery from depression. I’ve felt the need to acknowledge hurt that I’ve caused and to ask for […]

Filed Under: Recovery, Relationship Tagged With: Anger, depression, family, forgiveness, loss

Revisiting: Removing Barriers to Closeness

by John Folk-Williams 10 Comments

barriers to closeness

This is a new version of an early post about how my wife and I were able to keep our relationship together despite the impact of depression. It discusses a therapeutic approach to emotional awareness that helps eliminate barriers to closeness by drawing on ideas about acceptance. More than 20 years ago I stopped believing […]

Filed Under: Psychotherapy, Relationship Tagged With: intimacy, partners, self, shame, therapy

When Holding Hands Is Hard to Do

by John Folk-Williams 6 Comments

Holding hands in negative image

The first time our two oldest sons, at ages 3 and 4.5, went for a walk without their parents, I learned something about love and trust. My wife and I had decided to let them walk a short distance up the hill from our house to a play area. They had insisted this was no […]

Filed Under: Relationship Tagged With: emotion, fear, neuroscience, partners, trust

How Couples Stay Together

by John Folk-Williams 31 Comments

How Couples Stay Together

Many couples manage to survive depression with the help of marital therapy, even though most relationship therapies aren’t designed to deal with the added problem of a mood disorder. I’ve been doing a little research and have found that most therapy and counseling for couples doesn’t have a good track record. In fact, research links […]

Filed Under: Relationship Tagged With: connecting, marriage, partner

How Setting Boundaries Helped Me Heal

by John Folk-Williams 17 Comments

snow shadows

My getting depressed after a cancer operation almost ended our marriage. It was the blow that forced my wife to remind me of the boundaries I couldn’t afford to ignore. I had been in high spirits for the operation and right through the recovery period. My wife and I had been especially close during that […]

Filed Under: Depression Symptoms, Relationship Tagged With: boundaries, connection, fear, self, shame

The Limits of Care-Giving for Depression

by John Folk-Williams 8 Comments

Water Girl by a Stream

A family member’s care-giving for depression can shift from hope to frustration if the initial expectations are unrealistically high. The film Phoebe in Wonderland is about a young girl with a compulsive disorder and also about the mother who tries to cure her with love. The mother, brilliantly played by Felicity Huffman, blames herself as […]

Filed Under: Relationship Tagged With: acceptance, care-giving, family, love, partner

11 Relationship Traps of Depression

by John Folk-Williams 661 Comments

Relationship trap

Depression sets relationship traps for both partners. Everything can change quickly between two people, and it’s crucial to be able to spot these changes as soon as possible. Here are 11 signs of the illness that seem perfectly designed to undo the bonds of closeness. Humor, talking and doing things together, sharing special moments – […]

Filed Under: Relationship Tagged With: blame, intimacy, partner

How to Work Together to Save Your Relationship from Depression

by John Folk-Williams 151 Comments

Relationships can break down quickly under the impact of depression. While many depressed partners decide to leave for good, I think it’s more common for two people to stay together and try to tough it out. If that’s the situation you’re in, you need more than hope to make a go of it and eventually […]

Filed Under: Relationship Tagged With: judgment, partner

Next Page »

Primary Sidebar

Sign Up for Email Delivery

Get updates and blog posts by email.

Surviving Depression Together Now Available at Major Retailers

Surviving Depression Together


Surviving Depression Together

"John, this is a ... much needed resource. Thanks for writing it!"

- Therese Borchard, author of Beyond Blue


Learn More...

A Mind for Life Ebook Now Available at Major Retailers

A Mind for Life: From Depression to Living Well

A Mind for Life Ebook

The inner work of getting your life back from depression. This ebook is now available in most common ebook formats at major retailers.

LEARN MORE

Living Depressed

Depression affects emotions, mental abilities, self-concept, behavior, relationships and the entire body. These core posts describe the full range of symptoms affecting daily life. Read More.

Choices in Healing

Hoping for recovery gives you a motive but not a method for getting there. This section has posts about therapies and healing methods you can work with either on your own or with professional guidance. Read more.

Living Well

If you've learned how to manage your depression, you'll want a fulfilling life rather than one dominated by fear that the illness might return. In this section, you'll find posts about how to work toward that goal. Read More

Relationships in Crisis

One of the hardest challenges of living with depression is holding onto your closest relationships. This section features posts on how to help a relationship survive. Read More.

Recent Posts

  • Storied Mind Ebooks Ready to Go!
  • Notebook: Healing the Whole Person
  • Why Writing Helps Heal Depression – 2
  • Why Writing Can Help Heal Depression – 1
  • Re-Reading the Story of Depression’s Meaning

Search Storied Mind

Categories

Recent Comments

  • Linda on Helen: A Great Film on Depression
  • Anonymous on 10 Ways to Help Yourself When Your Partner Is Depressed
  • Karthika on How Can You Communicate After Your Depressed Partner Leaves?
  • Adam on How Can You Communicate After Your Depressed Partner Leaves?
  • Karthika on How Can You Communicate After Your Depressed Partner Leaves?
  • Adam on How Can You Communicate After Your Depressed Partner Leaves?
  • Anonymous on How Can You Communicate After Your Depressed Partner Leaves?
  • Karthika on How Can You Communicate After Your Depressed Partner Leaves?

Privacy and Cookie Policy

Privacy Policy

Cookie Policy

Terms of Use

DISCLAIMER: None of the content on this site should be interpreted as medical or therapeutic advice about the treatment of depression or any mental illness. If you feel you need help, you should seek treatment from qualified professionals.

AFFILIATES: We are a participant in the Amazon Services LLC Associates Program, an affiliate advertising program designed to provide a means for us to earn fees by linking to Amazon.com and affiliated sites.

Copyright © 2023 · Dynamik-Gen on Genesis Framework · WordPress · Log in