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Depressed Men Behaving Badly Can Stop

by John Folk-Williams 40 Comments

Frowning Man in Dark Glasses

There’s a story on this site that never, unfortunately, gets old. It’s about depressed men breaking up their relationships as a misguided way to get well and find fulfillment. The psychotherapist, David Wexler, has good ideas about how men can change the experience of their closest relationships without leaving. He looks at the problems of […]

Filed Under: Men and Depression Tagged With: authenticity, feelings, marriage, men, partner

The Loss of Feeling in Depressed Partners

by John Folk-Williams 242 Comments

Disreality Illusion

Living with depressed partners can mean living without the feelings of love that are at the heart of every relationship. What is it about depression that could turn intimate companions into cold and blaming strangers? Readers ask about this over and over as their partners start blaming them for their own unhappiness and want out […]

Filed Under: Depressed Partners Tagged With: feelings, loss, marriage, partner

How Depression Spreads

by John Folk-Williams 12 Comments

Separated man and woman watching sunset

Depression spreads through the closest relationships almost like a communicable disease. I learned the hard way that the illness didn’t happen to me alone. It happened to my children, my friends, and most of all to my wife. The pull of depression took me away from her and everyone else. I often felt I was […]

Filed Under: Depressed Partners, Isolation Tagged With: family, feelings, intimacy, marriage, partner, relationships

How Couples Stay Together

by John Folk-Williams 31 Comments

How Couples Stay Together

Many couples manage to survive depression with the help of marital therapy, even though most relationship therapies aren’t designed to deal with the added problem of a mood disorder. I’ve been doing a little research and have found that most therapy and counseling for couples doesn’t have a good track record. In fact, research links […]

Filed Under: Relationship Tagged With: connecting, marriage, partner

Living with a Depressed Partner

by John Folk-Williams 16 Comments

Living with Depressed Partner

Several readers have asked about the best ways to respond to warning signs and symptoms of depression in their partners. The illness tends to separate two people in many ways, so the question always arises: What can I, the well partner, do when the symptoms start to push us apart? I think the first thing […]

Filed Under: Depressed Partners Tagged With: boundaries, expectation, marriage, partners, treatment

Waking Up a Depressed Partner

by John Folk-Williams 47 Comments

dawn sky

I remember years ago talking with a friend about his recent divorce and remarriage and mentioning the stressful time my wife and I had been having at that time. He bluntly suggested: Well, why don’t you leave? I told him I wouldn’t do that since I thought the problems were as much on my side […]

Filed Under: Depressed Partners, Psychotherapy Tagged With: awareness, connecting, marriage, partner, relational mindfulness

Couples Therapy and Relationships: Hedy Schleifer

by John Folk-Williams 1 Comment

In the world of couples therapy, there seem to be a few people who are known world-wide as masters of the trade. Hedy Schleifer is one of them. You may not have heard of her before, since she hasn’t written any books about her approach. I was introduced to her work through a video interview […]

Filed Under: Psychotherapy, Relationship Tagged With: couples therapy, intimacy, marriage, relationships

The Surviving Depression Together Ebook Is Now Available

by John Folk-Williams 22 Comments

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I’m pleased to announce that the first Storied Mind ebook is now available. Surviving Depression Together contains new versions of more than 20 posts on relationships published here over the past five years as well as completely new content and material previously published only in the newsletter. It has all been edited and organized into […]

Filed Under: Depressed Partners, Relationship Tagged With: ebooks, marriage, partners

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