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Depressed Men Behaving Badly Can Stop

by John Folk-Williams 40 Comments

Frowning Man in Dark Glasses

There’s a story on this site that never, unfortunately, gets old. It’s about depressed men breaking up their relationships as a misguided way to get well and find fulfillment. The psychotherapist, David Wexler, has good ideas about how men can change the experience of their closest relationships without leaving. He looks at the problems of […]

Filed Under: Men and Depression Tagged With: authenticity, feelings, marriage, men, partner

Therapists and Depressed Men

by John Folk-Williams 12 Comments

Therapists and Depressed Men

Except for my first experience in therapy, I spent years working with psychiatrists (back in the days when they did more than write prescriptions), depressed the whole time, perhaps getting a temporary lift, but quickly losing whatever short-term benefit the sessions may have provided. According to many therapists, as I explain below, this is a […]

Filed Under: Men and Depression, Psychotherapy, Self-Esteem Tagged With: fear, feelings, men, shame, stigma, women

The Crowded Emptiness of a Depressed Man

by John Folk-Williams 24 Comments

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Long before I began to recover from depression, I stumbled my way into moments when time seemed to disappear. My mind cleared itself out completely, and I found myself in a kind of stillness that I can only call spiritual. Those were hopeful experiences, the closest I’ve come to the sense of oneness that Jill […]

Filed Under: Men and Depression, Spirituality Tagged With: emptiness, Mad Men, men, oneness, panic

Revisiting: Real Depressed Men Don’t Cry

by John Folk-Williams 11 Comments

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This is an edited version of one of the first posts I wrote for Storied Mind. ………. I’m not sure where the following came from, but it turned up on my cyber doorstep recently. I guess some men have trouble living up to their fantasies: Ok, everybody knows depressed people have these outbursts of grief […]

Filed Under: Men and Depression Tagged With: feelings, grief, men, work

Tony Giordano’s Story of Depression and Recovery

by John Folk-Williams 3 Comments

Every person who has lived with depression has a unique story to tell, and I’ve read or listened to dozens of them since starting this blog. Rarely, though, have I found a narrative that so closely parallels my own experience as Tony Giordano’s does. It’s Not All In Your Head: Unearthing the Deep Roots of […]

Filed Under: Men and Depression, Recovery Tagged With: Anger, emotional abuse, men, PTSD

On Health Central: How One Man Fights Depression

by John Folk-Williams 7 Comments

Some Rights Reserved by prudencebrown121 at Flickr My new post at Health Central talks about picking up on the early warning signs of depression. Since I tend to need a big picture to figure out what to do, I found it when forced by desperation to look closely at my own self-defeating behavior. That was […]

Filed Under: Fighting Depression, Men and Depression Tagged With: Anger, depression, men, shame, symptoms

At Health Central: Recovery and Denial of Feelings

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Just a note to point you to this new post at Health Central. I hope you’ll drop by and leave a comment.

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At Health Central: Men and Depression

by John Folk-Williams 2 Comments

Just a note to let you know that I’m starting a series about men and depression at Health Central’s depression site. I know it’s controversial to talk about differences in the way men and women experience depression. It’s always easy to let stereotypes take over. But the influence of social roles seems to me inescapable, […]

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