Posts Tagged ‘violence’

Growing Up with Fear and Depression

Written by John on May 7th, 2010
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Some Rights Reserved by D Sharon Pruitt at Flickr I’ve always wondered why the stories of veterans with PTSD, like those I’ve been reading for the recent posts here and at Health Central, have always resonated so deeply. I have nothing close to the unimaginable violence of war in my experience, or any of the [...]

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Tags: anxiety, childhood, depression, detachment, family, Fear, rage, violence
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Family Fury in a Small Space

Written by John on June 6th, 2009
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Some Rights Reserved by _marmota at Flickr This is a story I had to get out of my head onto paper purely for healing. It’s still hard, though, and I may not be getting it right – best I can do for now. A name has been changed, but otherwise this is the way I [...]

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Tags: brother, family, father, Fear, fighting, home, mother, rage, sound, violence, voice, words
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Forgiveness & Recovery from Depression

Written by John on October 18th, 2008
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Some Rights Reserved by …Zeyneeep! at Flickr Recently, Melinda wrote a post about the role of forgiveness in her recovery and the difficulty she has had in forgiving her unrepentant father for abusing her in childhood. Reading this made me aware that I wasn’t very clear in my own mind about the meaning of forgiveness. [...]

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Tags: blame, change, childhood, depression, forgiveness, Recovery, soul, spirituality, vengeance, victim, violence
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Dropping Depression

Written by John on July 31st, 2008
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Photo Credit: JesterArts at Stockxpert As she often does, Stephany put a thought in my mind that I haven’t been able to shake. It was a three-word comment: “You have recovered.” Nice wish, I thought, if only – ! I’ve been working on recovery so long – it just isn’t happening consistently. But the problem [...]

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Tags: depression, feeling, life, love, pain, Recovery, song, Stephany, violence
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Growing Up Blue – Is Mom Dead?

Written by John on June 11th, 2008
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Some Rights Reserved by The Wandering Angel at Flickr I have a family in my memory that can’t be quite the family I grew up with. Each of us is more intense than we probably were, as lived moments collapse backwards into a few vivid scenes. Who knows if what I recall is what happened? [...]

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Tags: brother, childhood, depression, family, Fear, feeling, growing, memory, mother, up, violence
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Shame and Family Violence

Written by John on March 1st, 2008
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Jelena Popic – Fotolia.com Some years back I took part in a series of group sessions that focused on helping people confront and deal with inner shame that had haunted them since childhood. It was the first group in my experience that got me to interact with other people not just through talk but through [...]

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Tags: belief, depression, family, grief, group therapy, home, love, rage, shame, trauma, violence
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