Posts Tagged ‘blame’

Why Depressed Men Leave – 3

Written by John on February 26th, 2009
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Some Rights Reserved by boskizzi at Flickr. I’ve written a lot about the form of depression in which men look outside themselves to find the cause for an inner pain that simply can’t be faced. They may feel anger, rage, a longing to act out fantasies, or a compulsion to blame and abuse those closest [...]

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Tags: blame, despair, emotion, Emotional Abuse, emptiness, family, isolation, leaving, withdrawal, work
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Why Depressed Men Leave – 1

Written by John on February 9th, 2009
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Some Rights Reserved by lepiaf.geo at Flickr About a year ago, I wrote a series of posts about my experience with the fantasies of a better life that often prompt depressed men to leave their families. You can find the first of those stories here, here and here. Those brief pieces tell only a small [...]

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Tags: anger, blame, denial, family, grief, leaving, love, men, partner, self-esteem
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Forgiveness & Recovery from Depression

Written by John on October 18th, 2008
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Some Rights Reserved by …Zeyneeep! at Flickr Recently, Melinda wrote a post about the role of forgiveness in her recovery and the difficulty she has had in forgiving her unrepentant father for abusing her in childhood. Reading this made me aware that I wasn’t very clear in my own mind about the meaning of forgiveness. [...]

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Tags: blame, change, childhood, depression, forgiveness, Recovery, soul, spirituality, vengeance, victim, violence
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How One Man Fights Depression – 1

Written by John on January 10th, 2008
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Photo Credit – stewart charles – Fotolia.com I’ve fallen back into a prolonged dark period after a few weeks of energy, buzz and a bright outlook. That’s the way it goes, riding one wave after another through it highs and crashing lows. I need (and I mean need) to write what I’m doing to counteract [...]

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Tags: blame, marriage, meditation, rage, Recovery, Writing
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